Message ID: c27ho6$1q33kt$1@ID-202214.news.uni-berlin.de
I have been dating "Andre" since I was 12 and he was 13. We are now 26 and 27. Like any couple, we've had arguments. He's also cheated on me.
We have three children. He also has four children with other women.
We have a lot of trust issues. I want to get married, but I can't help thinking he's going to cheat again. How can I learn to trust him totally?
-- C.D. In Chicago
Dear C.D.:
Being of sound mind and body, that would be impossible. Thirteen years of this distrust and torture are enough already.
I'd talk to a lawyer, establish child support and let him go. He may be 27, but he still hasn't grown up.
You know, C. D. just as a point of information, I would call having three kids with some guy more than just "dating". Though one would have to wonder how, in between banging four other women (at very least!) just when Studly Hungwell found time to knock you up three times.
So you want to marry this bozo? And say you only have some "trust issues"? Give your head a shake and hear what ever passes for brains in your cranium rattle.
He's 27 years old, has seven kids and the only thing Andre has proven so far is that he can't get his synapses firing enough to figure out how to put a condom on his bird. He has also found out that there are at least four other women in the world just as stupid as you.
I suppose that I should take comfort in knowing that you are "raising our future" and El Producto is contributing to that by multiple sperm donations in any snatch he can jazz.
Somehow, I am less than impressed.
Childfree Abby
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