Childfree Abby - Just what colour stupid are you?28 June 2007Message ID: 1387bnscjg2uja7@news.supernews.com
Dear Annie: I'm in love with an engaged man, but unfortunately, he isn't engaged to me. He knows how I feel and has told me he has similar feelings. We know we aren't doing the smartest thing, but we both believe a little bit is better than nothing at all. The problem arises with his fiancee. I don't dislike her, but I am concerned about her effect on him. There have been times when I believe she's hacked into his e-mail account because letters of mine were sent to everyone in his address book. She also spread rumors around that he beat her, which I find completely absurd, and I think at one point, she might have staged a near rape to earn sympathy. I feel he should be told, but if it comes from me, I'm afraid I'll just come off as jealous and spiteful. So far, I've tried to let him notice things on his own, but I think he may purposely be blinding himself to certain of her actions to avoid being hurt. Should I tell him my concerns or just leave things as they are? -- Fearful in Love Dear Fearful: This guy is engaged to someone else and fooling around with you, and you're worried his fiancee is taking advantage of him? Open your eyes and take a closer look. If the two of you are so in love, he should have the decency to break off the engagement. If he won't, you can be sure it's because he doesn't care for you as much as you think, and it won't matter if you spill the beans or not. Get out of this relationship before you become the Other Woman in his marriage, writing us that you're a wreck because he won't leave his wife.
Dear Fearful, I have to say that I agree 100% with the sage advice of my esteemed counterpart. However, I must add my own, however pithy, advice: Just what colour of stupid are you? You have the most dubious honour of being the worst case of cranial-rectal inversion I've seen this year. Look very carefully around: Do you see a gun pointed to Romeo's head? No? Then why the nickel-plated fuck is he engaged to this other woman if he is so much in loooove with you? Get this through your head: he is saying what you want to hear in order to get into your pants. *You *Are* *A* *Piece* *Of* *Ass*. He doesn't love you and it is doubtful he loves his fiancée. I can't see imagine why his fiancée is going to such lengths to keep this guy, because if it wasn't you he was screwing it would be some other addle-pated twat. And if he is screwing around before they are married you can bet your butt that it won't end if and when they are married. Believe me, someone is being taken advantage of here, and it sure as hell isn't Romeo. Drop this dude, get off this train wreck. Now.
Childfree Abby - appalled
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